Welcome to the Lair! ROWR!
COU.GAR [koo-gar]
noun, plural -gars, (especially collectively) -gar.
~ an older woman/women, usually 35 or up, who prefers the company of a man much younger than themselves, usually 1/2 her age +5-7 years.
Welcome to my blog!
SO happy you found me. I am a self-proclaimed American Cougar (and dam proud of it!) who loves the sexy, steamy energy of younger men (in my case, usually 21-29).
This blog is about my personal experiences, the experiences of others, dating, sex, Cougar ‘bait’ (as I like to refer to them), and the various topics surrounding this lifestyle and the relationships between a younger man and an older woman.
This blog is for both Cougars and the men who love them so…
…enter the Lair for a bit and relax.
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I hope hear from all of you.
ROWR!
The Cougar
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billybob said,
June 9, 2009 at 9:17 pm
I would love to service a few ladys before i get married in sept.
Carlos Sanchez frm houston said,
June 9, 2009 at 9:23 pm
hey well i work at luxury hotel in downtown houston as a bartender… what are some signal i should get to know if a cougar wants to take me to a room i fantasize sooo much about it and i want it to happen im latin and 24.. mexican and colombian
thecougar said,
June 9, 2009 at 10:02 pm
Usually our signals are pretty clear. Alot of eye contact, flirting, laughing, compliments. If she is interested – YOU’LL KNOW! I think there are many guys that think they are getting the signals but are afraid to act on them and risk rejection.
I say just GO FOR IT! If you think the signal is there, ask her if she would like to hang around for a drink after you get off your shift. What can it hurt right? If she says no, ah well..but if she says yes… !!!!! SCORE!
I seriously think too many guys just don’t take the risk and I know with me, personally, I love a guy that is confident enough to make the move right back at me!
Carlos Sanchez frm houston said,
June 10, 2009 at 2:18 am
hey thanks! yea i should go for it…it happens so often is crazy but im scared theyll be like ooh no!! n tell the GM of the hotel or something but i have to take chances right lol
Zephyr said,
June 14, 2009 at 6:53 am
Where to read your blog posts?
thecougar said,
June 15, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Please look for RECENT POSTS in the right hand column of the blog. You may have to page down.